December 5, 2023

Young woman holding dildo on bed

The first time I used a sex toy I was suffering through a self-imposed sex drought. I had promised myself to keep my legs closed until I found a suitable partner who was caring and ready to commit, and there was no man in sight. So I ventured out, purchased a sex toy and went to town – by myself. Me and B.O.B (Battery Operated Boyfriend) had quite a love affair.

Although it was amazing to have a substitute penis, I eventually missed the real thing. No matter how many orgasms I experienced or how uncomplicated things were with B.O.B there is nothing like a real man’s touch, among other things. Men truly are better than sex toys, and here is why:

That Tender Touch

And by tender I don’t just mean getting stroked. Ultimately, women want to feel a man’s touch. “You can’t cuddle with sex toys,” said Dana from New York City. “A sex toy can’t tickle you either,” she continued. They also can’t hug us when we’re having a terrible day, or listen when we need to complain. A man can! Women need and desire all of these things that a sex toy cannot provide.

Sex Toys Pillow Talk

Pillow Talk

One of the best ways to connect with your partner is to partake in pillow talk. You lay your head on your almohada and share your deepest desires, fantasies and secrets. This is when and where intimacy grows in a relationship. Women cannot have an intimate relationship with a sex toy. We may bond sexually (some sex toys can be addictive) but there is no emotional bond or connection. Ultimately, using sex toys can feel as empty as a drunken one-night stand.

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Sujeiry Gonzalez is a vibrant writer, author and on-air talent that tells it like it is -- with just a little more sass and a ton of laughs. Coined the ‘Latina Carrie Bradshaw,’ she is the host of “The Sweet Spot with Sujeiry” on ChicRebellion TV. She’s rocked the relationship market since 2006, sharing her pearls of wisdom with CNN Latino, Cosmopolitan for Latinas, Latina Magazine, and more. Author of Love Trips: A Collection of Relationship Stumbles, the 2013 Love Guru on Exitos 93.9FM owns LoveSujeiry Magazine – a community for women to dish on love, dating, sex and The Power of Self-First.

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