February 28, 2024

Rough Play

“A toy can’t pull your hair while taking care of business.” That’s what Maria from Brooklyn said. There are ways that men can turn a woman on that a sex toy just can’t, like smacking our asses or talking dirty. No matter how over the top the sex toy (ball gag, anyone?) a woman wants a man with whom to get freaky.

Sex Toys Surprise

The Unexpected

A sex toy does what it does. You buy it at the store and it comes with specific instructions and dos and don’ts. Some sex toys can be submerged in water; others can only be splashed. And then there’s the hunt for batteries. So you see why women like Mayra rather have a man. “It’s kind of fun when a man throws in something totally unexpected,” the New Jersey resident explained. “A toy, yeah you kind of know what’s going to happen next!”

Turning Men On

For me, there is nothing better than going at it cowboy style with my man. He feels like such an hombre – because he is! You cannot mount a sex toy, and they only get turned on with batteries. Men get turned on by what we do to them; our sexual prowess and skills are put to use! And women feel sexy and desired when doing so. We want to rock a guy’s world and hear him moan. A sex toy, on the other hand, lets out only one sound: bzzzz!

No matter how you look at it women need and desire men sexually. It doesn’t matter how big the dildo; a sex toy will never match the weight and feel of a man. And that’s why women will always desire the real deal.



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Sujeiry Gonzalez is a vibrant writer, author and on-air talent that tells it like it is -- with just a little more sass and a ton of laughs. Coined the ‘Latina Carrie Bradshaw,’ she is the host of “The Sweet Spot with Sujeiry” on ChicRebellion TV. She’s rocked the relationship market since 2006, sharing her pearls of wisdom with CNN Latino, Cosmopolitan for Latinas, Latina Magazine, and more. Author of Love Trips: A Collection of Relationship Stumbles, the 2013 Love Guru on Exitos 93.9FM owns LoveSujeiry Magazine – a community for women to dish on love, dating, sex and The Power of Self-First.

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