Make no mistake; men will converse about their experiences receiving oral sex. And a common gripe is that Latinas don’t particularly enjoy providing it. Well…think again, Latinas enjoy oral sex (giving and receiving) just as much as you do!
Mind-blowing, right? Well, it shouldn’t be. Women are having more oral sex than ever. And get this: more of them are opening up about just how much they enjoy it. Dying to know what mujeres really think about when they are pleasuring their hombres? I reached out to Latinas across the Interwebs to find out what they think about oral sex and what they wish men would keep in mind when on the receiving end of things. Read on for what they had to say…
We Want A Reaction
“I feel sexy doing it, I genuinely enjoy it. Most women stop after they get married or have kids, [but] I actually want it more. I get excited. I give myself silent props because he tenses up and his toes curl.” – Yanette*, 31, Puerto Rican, Chicago
“If he’s not closing his eyes and grasping the pillows, then I know I gotta take it up a notch. [To] make sure the fun doesn’t end abruptly, I smile at him and say silly—or sexy, depending on your perspective—things like, ‘Yum, so delicious.’” – Wendy*, 27, Brazilian, New York
Subtlety Goes A Long Way
“Do not push my head down hard to get me to go deep cause it just turns me off. And please no cheerleading—there’s a way to express pleasure without sounding like I’m going in for a field goal.” – Maite*, 36, Argentine, Atlanta
Don’t Slow Your Roll?
“When I go down at first I’m going at it like [I’m] eating a chicken wing. Five minutes in, I’m like, “Are you done yet? Why are you not done? Ok, now my mouth muscles are hurting!” – Maite
“When I start it’s like a mission. I’m thinking, ‘I am going to make you cum.’ Then after 10 minutes, I start thinking about what I want to watch after this. After 20 minutes, I just keep repeating in my head, ‘Cum already! Dammit, how much longer?”- Alyssa*, 30, Puerto Rican, Milan, Italy
Recognize & Respect the Reflex!
“Just because I like giving head does not mean I can deep throat. I’ve tried for years but can’t do it because my gag reflex is too strong. Also, just because I like sucking on you does not mean I am going to swallow your semen. I am not. I hate the texture of semen. My best sexual partners recognize my limitations as well as my abilities, and they don’t make me feel bad for either.” – Laura*, 27, Mexican & African-American, Kentucky
“Since I usually sleep with Black men, in my mind I’m thinking “I have to represent. When he goes back and tells his friend that he hooked up with a Latina, he has to say I was the best.” – Natasha, 26, Ecuadorian, New Jersey
Swallowing – Because Their Is No Clever Way to Phrase It
“I find it disgusting! When I go down on him, I know when he is about to cum and I quickly and gracefully push him away before it can even touch me. I think that’s the only time I have a ninja reflex. I bend in ways I never thought possible just to avoid getting hit!” – Alyssa
“I swallow. There will be no messes in my fancy-ass bedroom.” – Yanette
“As long as it doesn’t get in my eye, I’m ok swallowing and what not, getting a little freaky.” – Wendy
To Give Is To Receive
“Do not expect me to want to go down on you if you won’t ever go down on me. I’m tired of certain men thinking their genitalia should be worshiped and female genitalia should be shamed. Eating a woman out is an art form.” – Laura
“I’m always surprised when it happens and immediately start thinking of the conditions down there. After about a minute of worrying, if he seems all right, and then I start enjoying it. – Wendy
The Latino Lover Wins
“Latino men are the most passionate. They make you feel like you are the only one—even though you hardly ever are—and have the most talented tongues. Then again, so do us Latinas!” – Natasha