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Do College Fraternities Still Matter?

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Recently, some of my friends and I reached a special milestone. April 1st marked the 20th anniversary of the founding of our small chapter of the college fraternity we belong to. Which fraternity doesn’t really matter, what does matter is that it is one that focuses on Latino culture and community upliftment. Back in 1995, we decided bringing a chapter of this organization to our campus was a necessary thing for us as men. At the time the graduation rates of Latino men were much less than those of other communities. Those who didn’t flunk out felt that they needed guidance, focus, and a sense of leadership that could not be supplied by the current student groups at the university. This inspired my friends and I to spend a lot of time, money, and physical effort to go on a journey that would change our lives.

Looking back 20 years, not one of us regret making that choice. We are now husbands, fathers and elder statesmen of the fraternity, yet the bond we share with each other, and the men who came after us is unique and everlasting. These are not just words, it truly is our life. I say this now because if one were to look at the state of collegiate Greek life, you would think it a crazy, foolhardy move for anyone to ever consider joining a Greek lettered organization (GLO). The headlines of what is going on with ‘traditional’ (i.e., traditionally white and male) organizations is cringe-worthy at least, downright shameful at worst. The most recent escapade of Sigma Alpha Epsilon with their racist chanting, as well as the spate of sexual violence and harassment being attributed to collegiate Greeks all seem to point to the notion that the time of the Greek lettered organization is over. For many, this may absolutely be true.

The Current Blowback

The blowback against GLOs has been hard. Universities have decided that rather than come across as discriminatory, they would rather consider GLOs as persona non-grata on campuses across the country with some universities banning the type of organizations outright, or banning their social events en masse. At my own University, a decision was recently made that no GLO that offered housing (i.e., a frat house) can discriminate based on gender or any other personal criteria. Those who did not choose to “co-educate” would simply cease to exist.

I was a part of these discussions, though not part of the ultimate decision, but I wholeheartedly agree with the outcome. A fraternity can exist if it so choses to as long as it doesn’t violate any laws or put anyone in danger, but a university does not have to pay for their house. That is typically a privilege shared only by the few traditional GLOs. No female or ethnic GLO on our campus has ever had an official house.

Recently, a group called the Fraternal Government Relations Coalition, a lobbying group whose membership includes many of the largest GLOs in the country, have considered lobbying Congress to make it harder for universities to investigate allegations of sexual assault, and to make it harder for universities to punish the campus organizations themselves should a member is found at fault. This kind of approach is absolutely ass-backwards, and from my perspective, does not speak for me. GLOs should be making it easier to provide a safe space for everyone on their campuses, and each organization should be doing self reflection and internal work to make sure their members are not involved in assaults, period.

One Set of Letters Does Not Fit All

But let me explain what most people miss throughout these recent discussions. Greek lettered organizations are as diverse as the world itself. While many of the oldest and most established organizations are predominantly white, and male, and live off the premise of a privileged networking society with some community service opportunities kicked in, there are also GLOs that are female, Black, Latino, Asian, multi-cultural, LGBT, religious focused, gender neutral, the list goes on and on. In fact probably the only thing many of them may have in common is that they chose to represent their organization with Greek letters.

The idea that GLOs should not exist is something I take exception with. GLOs – specifically, GLOs that focus on communities of color, women and other minority groups, are actually essential. Without them there would be fewer national networks for those considered to be underrepresented communities. One has to simply look at the prestigious alumni lists of many Pan-Hellenic GLOs to see the contribution their members have made over the last century. This is not to say that the “traditional” GLOs do not have great alumni as well. Many will tell you this is not a coincidence, but that the bonding and structure that are part of many GLOs actually foster a mentality of success that is not duplicated outside this model.

One could argue, however, that at least among traditional GLOs, that this success is less about an uncommon mentality of its members, but more about an uncommon privilege of an exclusive and closed network that the organizations foster that lead to this type of success. How can universities support this while trying to encourage inclusion and equality on their campuses?

Especially when exclusivity and selection is a tradition that is as old as academia itself. With our top universities admitting as little as 5% of applicants, for them to be critical of an organization based on selective membership would be hypocritical. However, universities do not deny based on “what” the candidate is, and when selective membership of a greek organization is tied specifically to gender, it places traditional GLOs squarely, and perhaps justifiably, in the crosshairs.

I do believe that more than ever, non-traditional GLOs are necessary. They provide not only needed services to the individual members as well as the communities they serve, but they provide an added “balance” to the traditional GLO system. An alternative for those who want to experience the model of a GLO, but have trouble relating to traditional campus Greeks, or just don’t feel safe amongst them. That is not to say non-traditional GLOs are a panacea. They also struggle with very real and serious topics, like hazing, sexism, homophobia, yes, even racism. I believe that many of the ethnic GLOs, including Latino Greeks like my own organization, should really consider radical topics for the new century, including overhauling intake practices, and the potential for coeducation.

Either way, all GLOs should consider the real possibility that in the next 20 years, campuses, and their roles within them, will look nothing like the last 20, or the last 200. Traditional organizations must understand the role they play in creating a safe campus space, especially if they control actual physical property. Non-traditional GLOs must take advantage of their small(er) sizes, get nimbler and not try to emulate the traditional model, but instead see where they can be vanguards and set new standards. If the system is to survive at all, it will not survive as it is. The world is a’changing ladies and gentlemen. Time to embrace change, or be left behind.

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