Iwas having lunch with one of my Latino guy friends the other day and he was telling me about his latest girlfriend.
“She’s not my usual type but the sex is crazy good. She’s not so conservative.”
Conservative than what?
“You know. The girls that I’m used to dating…”
Who do you usually date?
Latinas.
Um, WHAT? Since when did we Latinas get a reputation of being conservative in the sack? Are we back to the Madonna/Whore complex or has it never left? If you’re wondering what the Madonna/Whore complex is and if you have it, Dr. Douglas Weiss, author of “She Has a Secret,” explains.
‘Every culture has a male population that adheres to a madonna/whore myth. This plays mostly to the dualistic manor in which cultures portray female sexuality. On one hand it tells men to protect women and marry a virgin. Then the culture sexualizes woman continually and men are encouraged to get as many woman as possible. So yes men are confused and have created language to deal with this confusion hence you have the Madonna (wholesome) Whore (cheap) versions of sexuality.’
In other words, if we’re not seen as the hot sex goddesses out to bed every guy in our sight, then we must be asexual women off to the nunnery. But guess what? Latinas are not just nice Catholic girls afraid of sex.
According to a study by the Pew Research Center, Hispanics are less likely to identify as Catholic. Though some have converted to Protestantism, some are not religious at all. Not only that, some women who are still practicing Catholics don’t buy into the virgin/whore bullshit at all! And some of us really. Like. Sex. All kinds of sex. .
What kind you ask? Find out after the jump…
I talked to some real women and here’s what they had to say about what turns them on. Fasten your seatbelt guys.
Three’s Company
My boyfriend is one lucky bastard. I’m bi-sexual, so we have threesomes. He enjoys that I’m very open in the bedroom. Plus, I truly enjoy anal, even if I do need a drink to loosen up! He doesn’t judge me or make me feel insecure. He he genuinely loves it when I take the initiative. I think that’s why I can be so open with him, Be cause I trust him wholeheartedly. – Jacqui, 40, New York
Talk Dirty to Me
I’m a very sexual and passionate person. Intimacy for me includes looking into each other’s eyes, kissing, caressing and lots of dirty talk. Behind doors I take my sweet time with my lover. I’m like energizer fuck bunny. -Marie, Miami, 28
Toy Time
I personally think that Latina women are some of the sexiest women in the world, they ooze sex. As a Latina woman, I really like to spice things up in the bedroom, I love to incorporate toys when I’m getting intimate with someone. I also really enjoy getting spanked! – Nikki, 25, Los Angeles
Beyond The Bedroom
Perhaps you can call me an adrenaline junkie but the best sexual encounters for me have been on the go. Behind churches, the laundry rooms of my boyfriend’s apartment complex… I even once did it on the balcony of a friend’s house! The thrill of getting caught makes sex even hotter. – Dina, 32, Los Angeles
Rough and Tumble
Now, as far as the actual act of sex well, grounding and pounding best from behind and no problem with the bum bum. All holes and positions are game as long as he knows how to use it.
One way to turn me off is to treat and handle me as if I were a porcelain doll. The rougher the better. Being dominated is preferred. – Marie, 28, Houston